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American women are the worst females in the world. We're fat, ugly, have no sense of style and typically behave as man beasts. We like to gorge ourselves on fatty foods and alcohol, but have no idea how to cook. Our idea of a nice dinner for a man is carry-out from a local restaurant, or throwing something in the microwave. All femininity is lost in the quest for our careers and we constantly emasculate men with our demands for equality. These are the musings of a famous pick-up artist named "Roosh V", who grew up very close to me in Maryland. Now Roosh is a master blogger, creating such genius and noteworthy posts like "As the Pussy Turns," even publishing a book entitled "Bang," which instructs men how to get laid in various parts of the world. His favorite location is Eastern Europe, more specifically Estonia, Ukraine, Moldova, Russia...But, his favorite hobby is discussing and dissecting every trait of the horrid American female, like in this video. For those too lazy to watch it, I'll summarize his main points about why American women deserve no attention from men:

(1) We're fat, and fat girls are always unattractive and unworthy of dates or relationships.

(2) We're constantly glued to our smart phones and incapable of human interaction.

(3) A lot of us have short hair, and are too lazy to maintain long, beautiful tresses.

(4) We're impressed by celebrities and not doctors or lawyers.

(5) We listen to stupid magazines and websites to learn how to please men.

(6) We don't know how to cook, and can only use a microwave. Some of us can't even operate the microwave buttons.

(7) We wear flip flops, even when we're not at the beach.

(8) We have condoms in our dressers because we're fully prepared to sleep with random men; however, a man only wants a woman to be a slut for him. No one else.

(9) We acquire pets instead of putting in the time and effort to find a quality man.

(10) We don't know how to be sexy and feminine, only trashy and slutty.

(11) We have standards in men well beyond our level of attractiveness.

(12) We think having a good job and earning our own money makes us a quality woman.

(13) We wear pajamas in public.

(14) We're addicted to brain dead entertainment and watch too much TV.

(15) Our idea of travel is going to the beach or France. We have no concepts of other cultures and no intellectual curiosity.

(16) We have too many trashy tattoos, and look like prison convicts, not women.

(17) We're proud to date many men at the same time.

(18) We do and say dirty things in bed, even the first time we have sex with a man, and generally behave as amateur porn stars.

(19) We lie the first time you get us in bed by saying "I've never done this before...."

(20) On our way home from work, we take off our dress shoes and wear dirty sneakers to walk to the metro.

(21) We like to eat pizza after a night of binge drinking, and then wonder why our asses are so fat.

(22) We care more about maintaining a good career than a good home or family.

(23) We rarely wear high heels.

What do I think when I read this? First, to each their own. As my mom always said, there are plenty of fish in the sea. :) Some of his observations are right, others exaggerated.

I simply laugh at the video, because my position has always remained the same. Beautiful women can be found anywhere in the world, including America, and ideas of beauty and "femininity" are subjective. In my mind, wearing high heels and make-up has absolutely nothing to do with femininity. And, yes, I wear both, but not on a daily basis. What's the purpose of putting on make-up, pounding pavement in uncomfortable high heels and wearing a dress when you're only going to the market for groceries? Women are so desperate for male attention that they spend an hour out of their day to do this? Flip flops are more appropriate, but not pajamas. :)

In America, there's no shortage of men, and women don't feel the need to dress as flashy bait for male hunters. What's the result? We're not so embedded with the neuroses to achieve some unattainable idea of "beauty" and perfection, although all women suffer from these complexes on occasion (including me). More importantly, our self-worth and value aren't solely tied to whether we're married, in a relationship, or have men chasing us at all times. Thus, if you want a woman to simply sit, obey, be silent and nod approvals at your every word or action, an American woman probably isn't for you. Plus, what a boring existence! I don't understand why any man craves it.


There's one good point to his video. It made me think about what "femininity" really is. How do you define it? Perhaps this is impossible, but each person knows it when they see it. Femininity to me is the way a woman carries herself, the gentle look in her eyes, nurturing spirit, soft skin and lips, curves, a smile, the ability to put a man at ease and make him comfortable in a relationship and life. Not put him on the defensive, criticize or question his every action, and constantly demand that he change to transform into the person you wish him to be. These are emasculating actions; not the fact that I pay for my own coffee, rather than having a man do it. To be a provider, it's absolutely a male trait and one that's desired by every woman, including me. This is a necessary and very crucial component for a healthy relationship. However, "providing" also means different things to different people. For me, it has no correlation to money or finances, but rather intellectual stimulation, creativity, artistry, exploration (on all levels), emotional support and adventure. Without these things, no man will ever keep my attention, get my panties wet, or stir wild passion in my soul. With all the jokes about my vibrators, I can also confirm that no electronic toy can replace the feeling or sensation of a man being on top, below or inside me.

In the end, I find it sad that some people's view of "femininity" is tied only to glossy, superficial things. High heels, a painted face, short skirt...these things don't define a woman and I see no value in them if a female has no brains, ambitions, or life experiences other than catering to a man, or being financially supported by him, her entire life. This leads to dependence on unhealthy relationships, as there's no opportunity to leave and care for one's self. Instead, a suffocating trap of misery. It will never be me, and I see no romance in being anyone's slave. I felt this way at 20 years old, and nothing has changed at age 41.

I'm surrounded by men at all times, value the different dynamics they bring to the table, and my closest connections and friendships in life have always been with males, not females. The same is true today. I don't believe women and men are the same, or that they should play the same roles in a relationship. I don't expect many people to understand my viewpoints on this topic, because the cultural differences in gender relations between Americans and Russians is still different.

These general observations about American women have also been repeated about Western European females, Canadians, Australians, basically any woman from a civilized country...and how about you? What's your idea of femininity and, for the men, what female behavior do you find emasculating?


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origen_72
Jan. 16th, 2015 02:10 am (UTC)
Я никогда не встречался с американками, но мои друзья (русские и русскоязычные) кто имел опыт таких романтических отношений говорят что основная причина в неспособности американок идти на компромисс в отношениях, полную отмороженность с точки зрения дележа бюджета, акулья ненасытность и бескультурье, причем какое-то зашкаливающее. Женщины, встречавшиеся с американцами, отмечают отсутствие чувства юмора у американцев мужчин, и сухость в общении (официоз).
ypolozov
Jan. 16th, 2015 03:21 am (UTC)
You spread the lie to make women even more fat. It's not fat food that made them fat, it's sweet food. And American food is extra sweet. And to make things worse they promote fat free everything. It's disgusting in taste and it has sugar calories. Everybody who know basic biochemistry knows that sugar easily turns into fat in a body.
So why promote these lie about fat food?
And I have friends who lost a lot of weight simply by going to fat food, low carbs. I'm in good shape even without it, but I can't keep silent)))
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juan_gandhi
Jan. 16th, 2015 02:19 am (UTC)
The guy seems to be more or less a moron... but OTOH I met so many such morons on Google campus...
rider3099
Jan. 16th, 2015 02:27 am (UTC)
Completely agree with you! 100%!
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rider3099
Jan. 16th, 2015 02:30 am (UTC)
What is femininity ... You make me to thinking. My grandmother used to say that the real woman should be elegant, gentle, understanding and wise.
dp_3lo
Jan. 16th, 2015 02:35 am (UTC)
Бабушки - это источник мудрости !!
реально... :)
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rankin_almst500
Jan. 16th, 2015 03:05 am (UTC)
Very succinctly put... Bravo, Shannon!

The only thing I don't agree with is your "...the cultural differences in gender relations between Americans and Russians is still different..."

I've left Russia 22 years ago... have a lot of female friends who are solid professionals in their chosen field, and am absolutely sure that there is no
difference between American and Russian women - they want the same things and value men the same way.
peacetraveler22
Jan. 16th, 2015 02:59 pm (UTC)
Thank you! :) I don't think the article is so succinct, it has a lot of text and I doubt many people actually read the whole thing. People have short attention spans on LJ. I agree, things are changing in modern day Russia, particularly in big cities like Moscow. Women understand the importance of being able to care for themselves financially. I've never understood why this is considered some radical feminist idea. The ability to provide for yourself - a necessary human trait for survival.
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uniala
Jan. 16th, 2015 03:24 am (UTC)
Если сравнивать с претензиями русских мужчин к русским женщинам, то я бы сказала, что имеются различия в пунктах 4, 8, 13, 15, 16, 20, 21.
пункты 5, 11, 14, 19 - вообще универсальные.
Удивлена, что нет претензий в стиле "плохая мать". У нас обычно достаточно значительная часть претензий сводится к "не хочет рожать" - "плохая мать"
pau_schok
Jan. 16th, 2015 07:33 am (UTC)
"не хочет рожать" - "плохая мать" - парадокс, ибо пока не родила - не мать. Эту претензию некоторые женщины сами придумали.
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Stan Podolski
Jan. 16th, 2015 03:33 am (UTC)
Wow.
Me and american women, we share so much

short hair - check
glued to my phone - check
pet instead of the right man - you bet!
and so on
peacetraveler22
Jan. 16th, 2015 03:02 pm (UTC)
I have no pets and am rarely glued to my phone. :) You're gay? If so, I know a lot of single, gay men. Come to Virginia to visit.
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livejournal
Jan. 16th, 2015 04:07 am (UTC)
Почему не стоит встречаться с американкой
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vasionok
Jan. 16th, 2015 04:08 am (UTC)
Do American women use skin care products? Cleansers, toners, moisturizers?
peacetraveler22
Jan. 16th, 2015 04:17 am (UTC)
Yes, I use all three. Since I was 16 years old. Mostly Clinique products, because they are fragrance free and I have sensitive skin. Now I'm 41 years old, but don't have many wrinkles. :)
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uniala
Jan. 16th, 2015 04:52 am (UTC)
Англосаксонские женщины творят зло на планете?
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rollson
Jan. 16th, 2015 04:16 am (UTC)
my friend was married with american woman,,
I visited him 3 times in US..
that was horrible..
screaming, fighting, house is a mess..
and she ripped him off after they divorced..
but he is also crazy.. )




peacetraveler22
Jan. 16th, 2015 03:07 pm (UTC)
Crazy attracts crazy! :) Some people crave drama, and are attracted to lunacy. Their lives are too boring without it.
strangeleopard
Jan. 16th, 2015 04:22 am (UTC)
перевели бы уж...
peacetraveler22
Jan. 16th, 2015 03:07 pm (UTC)
Easy to translate online if you don't understand English.
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viktorspoon
Jan. 16th, 2015 04:25 am (UTC)
Это просто гротеск - мужик намеренно сгущает краски о женщинах, чтобы оттенить проблему. Типа Салтыков-Щедрин. Проблема же есть, и многое подмечено верно. А женщина этого не понимает и как бы оправдывается. Конечно, полно нормальных женщин в Америке. Но, наверно, большая половина уже такие, каких описывает этот сатирик.
peacetraveler22
Jan. 16th, 2015 03:09 pm (UTC)
Yes, I think he's a satirist, but I find his way of earning an income vile. However, he's free to write what he wants, and express his viewpoints. This, the true beauty of free speech. We must tolerate it, even when we disagree with the opinion of the vocalist.
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ku_zina
Jan. 16th, 2015 04:26 am (UTC)
Какого черта это дерьмо в русском сегменте делает?
oryx_and_crake
Jan. 16th, 2015 04:43 am (UTC)
Русский сегмент у вас на огороде. А ЖЖ - международный ресурс.
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spawn999
Jan. 16th, 2015 05:14 am (UTC)
Американки все жырные и страшные,поэтому не нужно.
peacetraveler22
Jan. 16th, 2015 03:11 pm (UTC)
How many American women have you met or talked to?
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kin_dza_dza72
Jan. 16th, 2015 05:22 am (UTC)
Опять какое то говно на американском языке
mergenius
Jan. 16th, 2015 05:31 am (UTC)
опять какое-то русское возмущённое г. на американском LJ в американской сети...
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