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Again, we have the eternal theme of a female in search of her prince. Perhaps this is a joke, but I doubt it because many of my female acquaintances had similar lists in their 20's. A man must meet a number of specifications to even be considered as a partner, with some of the requirements bordering on absurdity. I think it's better to not have a list of criteria for a romantic partner. This limits your choices mentally, as it is highly unlikely any man will embody all of a woman's preferred attributes. More imporantly, there is no magic formula for passion or attraction. I'm a minimalist, so if I had to pick two criteria, the man must be (1) very adventurous; and (2) open-minded. I don't care about country of origin, skin color, profession, or income. Intelligence is also at the top of the list, but open-minded people are rarely dumb. They have a natural sense of curiosity and thirst for knowledge, which is highly attractive and arousing.

Did you create a list like this while searching for a partner? I've never once heard my male friends have so many preferences for a woman. Usually it is enough that she is breathing, spreads her legs, and doesn't nag too much. :)

Originally posted by politichanka at Новая версия моего идеального мужчины
Образ моего идеального мужчины резко поменялся.

Теперь мужчина, которого я считаю идеалом для себя, должен обладать следующими качествами:

1. Мой идеальный мужчина должен быть уверенным и мужественным. Таким, чтобы про него можно было сказать: настоящий мужчина.

2. Мой идеальный мужчина должен быть родом с сибирских бескрайних просторов крайнего севера. Его Родина: Красноярск, Норильск или Новый Уренгой.

3. У моего идеального мужчины нет автофобии (Автофобия - это типа: "Лисапед - экологичнее, чем машина, поэтому никогда не сяду за руль машины, только лисапед"). У моего идеального мужчины есть машина и хороший стаж вождения.

4. У моего идеального мужчины - высшее образование: инженерная или техническая специальность. Ботаники, экологи, филологи и прочие женские специальности идут лесом.

5. Мой идеальный мужчина владеет всякими мужскими штуками типа электродрели и прекрасно разбирается в прочих инструментах и стройматериалах. И может сам что-то починить!

6. Мой идеальный мужчина не курит. Это важно.

7. Мой идеальный мужчина умён и остроумен. Он может долго рассказывать захватывающие истории из своей жизни. У моего идеального мужчины правильный русский язык, его приятно слушать.

8. Мой идеальный мужчина непременно носит бороду. У него русые волосы. И он безумно красивый. (Страсть у меня к красивым мужчинам, что поделаешь).

9. Мой идеальный мужчина заботлив. Его присутствие рядом вызывает у меня чувство безопасности.

Наверняка то-то забыла... Если вспомню, то дополню.

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(no subject) - Apeerar Mitmrs - Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:42 pm (UTC) - Expand
peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:49 pm (UTC)
There is no perfect man, or woman. You either have a romantic connection with someone, or not. No list can evoke the pure human emotions of passion, love and intimacy.
(no subject) - m1uccia - Feb. 2nd, 2016 10:12 pm (UTC) - Expand
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pro100_petrov
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:43 pm (UTC)
Point two is very strange.
peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:45 pm (UTC)
Yes, it is a very specific criteria. :)) I'm open to lovers from all over the globe! Equal opportunities for all. :)
(no subject) - kichiro_sora - Feb. 2nd, 2016 08:54 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - 3as7 - Feb. 3rd, 2016 01:13 am (UTC) - Expand
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berngardovka
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:45 pm (UTC)
Original Topic paster is ugly minded 😏 hmmm if this haracteristic existed in English 😆
peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:46 pm (UTC)
Ugly minded? I find this list very amusing, and really can't understand the psychology of people with such specific demands in a partner. You created a similar list when searching for a partner?
(no subject) - berngardovka - Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:51 pm (UTC) - Expand
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(no subject) - kichiro_sora - Feb. 2nd, 2016 08:55 pm (UTC) - Expand
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wojzeh
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:45 pm (UTC)
всё исполнимо, кроме русского языка. даже у филологов...
peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:47 pm (UTC)
You think it is possible to find a man who meets all of her criteria? Seems almost impossible to me! :) But she is a nice woman, I wish her luck!
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lazicka
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:47 pm (UTC)
Yeah, it's funny, but I actually had a sort of list of qualities, orthodoxy being at the top. I learned it the hard way, that religious differences are usually the cause for most painful experience when it comes to close relationships, as religion seems to have an immense influence upon mentality. Other than that, it was always important for me that the man is
a) older and b) taller than myself, because I am traditional and used to love high heels :)
peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:51 pm (UTC)
Yes, religion is important. It can be a deal breaker, and I doubt I could date a highly religious person. All of my ex-boyfriends were much younger, not by choice, it just happened that way. :)
pin_gwin
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:51 pm (UTC)
Well, looks like I had not very formal list before I got married - in short we should share some common interests and be likable for each other. Well, what I understood over time - YOUR last sentence points.... it must not be neglected anyway even if the other list items are checked. But it is always a gamble, you never know for sure what you will get.
peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:54 pm (UTC)
These types of lists are mostly made by females. :) What do you mean last sentence points? Sex? Yes, it's very important, but this was never a problem in any of my past relationships because I'm a highly sexual being. Compare to my sister, who sometimes doesn't have sex with her husband for months at a time. I can't even imagine it.
(no subject) - pin_gwin - Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:02 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - peacetraveler22 - Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:05 pm (UTC) - Expand
notabler
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:53 pm (UTC)
I absolutely certain, she have written this rubbish just for purpose to provoke male (and female, but mostly male) readers and get as much comments, as possible. I think, hundreds comes to tell her how stupid she is )))
peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:55 pm (UTC)
This is common in all her posts, but usually she writes about politics. In any event, she's a friendly person, even though we agree about almost nothing - men or politics. :)) It is good that you found a kind, loving man Nadia!
(no subject) - kichiro_sora - Feb. 2nd, 2016 08:58 pm (UTC) - Expand
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peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:58 pm (UTC)
I don't know why? Go to the original post, and ask politichanka. :) She will probably answer you. These are her criteria, not mine.
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kiczune
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:58 pm (UTC)
о боже! это же я! только у меня происхождение не сибирское, и волосы рыжие и бороды нет и я не мужик, но все остальное подходит! я идеальный мужик если покрашу волосы, приклею бороду и буду врать что родилась в Барнауле....ахахахха Хорошо меня описали в мечтах, только я женщин не люблю, конкурентки они мне!
peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:03 pm (UTC)
Haha! I do not fit any of the criteria, except that I have a car and can drive! :)
(no subject) - kiczune - Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:08 pm (UTC) - Expand
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grand_damme
Feb. 2nd, 2016 06:59 pm (UTC)
Man proposes but God disposes
peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:00 pm (UTC)
But in America, women also sometimes propose! :)
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don_oles
Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:05 pm (UTC)
I wish her a REAL MAN.
hehe
peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:07 pm (UTC)
What is a REAL MAN?
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whiteeye
Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:08 pm (UTC)
When you are young you write such kind of lists. When you get older you are prepared for everything. As for me before i met my first love i had had this typical list: kind, merry, etc. And then only one criteria came up: to feel each other from the first sight, to understand without words and respect each others without being jelaous and having scandals. Luckily my husband meets all this criteria, that's why we've been together for 10 years:)
peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:11 pm (UTC)
The blogger who created the list isn't so young. :) I never created such lists, even in youth, but it was never a dream of mine to be married. "To feel each other from the first sight, to understand without words and respect each others without being jealous and having scandals..." +1000!
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maksipes
Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:09 pm (UTC)
o my. to hell these themes. let's talk about weather. what kind of weather have you there now?
peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:12 pm (UTC)
You will take just any woman? :) The weather here is now warm, the blizzard snow is almost gone. Sadness.
dkfl
Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:09 pm (UTC)
boring.
peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:13 pm (UTC)
I'm sick, and too tired to write a thought provoking post, or travel story this week. So, I am sorry, you will have to suffer with a boring post. :)
genka8
Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:14 pm (UTC)
I'm surprised that you are reading that not very bright troll.
peacetraveler22
Feb. 2nd, 2016 07:16 pm (UTC)
I mostly read her political posts, and anti-State Dept. rhetoric, which is off the wall and illogical.
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