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Surviving Without Sex


For a long time, I've wanted to write about this topic and explain why some women become celibate during certain periods in their life. Sometimes this is a conscious choice, and other times it happens unexpectedly as a defensive measure, out of fear of intimacy or being hurt when a relationship sours and ends. I will share my own experience in a separate post, but I don't think most of my readers, who are male, will even remotely understand the psychology behind such a decision. So, I ask a quick question. What is the longest period of time you've gone without sex?


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Sep. 9th, 2015 10:53 pm (UTC)
16.5 years.
Sep. 10th, 2015 12:16 am (UTC)
That's very long!!
Sep. 10th, 2015 12:24 am (UTC)
jerking off should count as sex, no?
Sep. 10th, 2015 12:27 am (UTC)
For my question, it doesn't count. I'm asking about abstinence from sex with another person, not yourself. :)
Julia Sazonova
Sep. 10th, 2015 02:21 am (UTC)
Sep. 10th, 2015 04:32 pm (UTC)
It's a long time, but somehow we manage to survive. Probably you even learned a lot of things about yourself during this period. :)
Sep. 10th, 2015 03:10 am (UTC)
One weeks :) No more please
Sep. 10th, 2015 04:32 pm (UTC)
I hope you're married or have a serious girlfriend. Otherwise, one week is no time at all!
(no subject) - c250 - Sep. 10th, 2015 06:17 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - peacetraveler22 - Sep. 10th, 2015 06:19 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - c250 - Sep. 11th, 2015 10:07 pm (UTC) - Expand
Sep. 10th, 2015 04:07 am (UTC)
Мудрые слова, впрочем, как всегда:)
Celebrating a wedding is going on. The father takes away the groom in a secluded place and says: "Listen to me, sonny. Now, on your wedding night, do not try to attack your wife and to arrange unbridled sex. When she lies in bed, you have to sit down in the armchair next to the bed and masturbate without paying attention to her"
-But, dad, why?!! Perhaps i married mostly just to have regular sex!
-Easy, son, listen to your wise father. This bitch needs to know from the first day that you can well do without her.
Sep. 10th, 2015 04:26 pm (UTC)
Re: Мудрые слова, впрочем, как всегда:)
It's bad to call a bride a "bitch!" :) But, I agree, it's very evil when women use sex as a manipulative tool. I'm sure your wedding night was magical. You told me you were a virgin before marriage, right? :)
Sep. 10th, 2015 04:44 am (UTC)
The playing with myself is adopted? :)
Sep. 10th, 2015 04:33 pm (UTC)
I think the majority of people play with themselves, right? :) This doesn't count.
(no subject) - notfop - Sep. 10th, 2015 07:20 pm (UTC) - Expand
Sep. 10th, 2015 05:47 am (UTC)
2.5 year
Sep. 10th, 2015 04:34 pm (UTC)
I think it's normal for a woman. Esp. if she's single and in her 30's or older.
(no subject) - little_bes - Sep. 10th, 2015 05:13 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - peacetraveler22 - Sep. 10th, 2015 05:14 pm (UTC) - Expand
Sep. 10th, 2015 10:12 am (UTC)
About six months.
But once it was 18 years)))
Sep. 10th, 2015 04:34 pm (UTC)
18 years...it's about average age. I was a late bloomer. I think around 20 or 21 years old.
Sep. 10th, 2015 11:13 am (UTC)
Little bit over a year - I moved to a new country and had to work really hard. It left no time for dating. Also it was a place where most people are not sexually attractive to me.
Sep. 10th, 2015 04:35 pm (UTC)
Where was it? I can almost always find people to whom I'm sexually attracted, the problem is finding a mental connection.
Sep. 10th, 2015 03:29 pm (UTC)
6 years. Male. I went on a binge when I met a girl who wanted to have sex all the time. It was exhausting, I now know how hard it is to be a male pornstar. I once refused an offer from a girl on skype who wanted to have virtual sex, I lied and told her I'm a gynecologist and can't look at vaginas anymore.
Sep. 10th, 2015 04:36 pm (UTC)
Was the woman the same age as you or older? Because men and women typically reach sexual peaks at different periods in life.
(no subject) - (Anonymous) - Sep. 11th, 2015 05:33 am (UTC) - Expand
Sep. 10th, 2015 10:37 pm (UTC)
Sixteen years before I got first, I think, it is my the longest period of celibate ... ))
Sep. 10th, 2015 10:43 pm (UTC)
Did you marry at a young age? I didn't lose my virginity until early 20's.
(no subject) - maadmike - Sep. 10th, 2015 11:48 pm (UTC) - Expand
Sep. 11th, 2015 05:05 pm (UTC)
A friend of mine has been living without sex for more than 2 years so far. The reason is he is lazy to look for one-day sex and doesn't want to have long-tern relationship.
As for me the longest perod without sex was around 2-3 months. Somehow I managed to solv the problem within quite short perod of time:)
Sep. 11th, 2015 05:07 pm (UTC)
Too lazy to look for one day sex? :)) I guess he's opposed to prostitutes or escorts? This is a good solution for the lazy. :)
Sep. 11th, 2015 05:39 pm (UTC)
Three and a half years.
Sep. 11th, 2015 06:02 pm (UTC)
This is a long break for a man! :)
(no subject) - nar_row - Sep. 11th, 2015 06:54 pm (UTC) - Expand
Sep. 12th, 2015 12:39 am (UTC)
9 years. From 17 till 26 y.o. First sex at 17 was very disgusting... male, straight.
Sep. 12th, 2015 03:10 am (UTC)
And what happened at 26? You finally met a nice woman? :)
Sep. 12th, 2015 09:46 am (UTC)
I think your research goes well - as comments are really epic :))) Loads of laughs :)))
Sep. 12th, 2015 02:53 pm (UTC)
Comments to posts about sex, beauty and relationships are always epic. Readers never fail to amuse me. :))
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