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Surviving Without Sex


For a long time, I've wanted to write about this topic and explain why some women become celibate during certain periods in their life. Sometimes this is a conscious choice, and other times it happens unexpectedly as a defensive measure, out of fear of intimacy or being hurt when a relationship sours and ends. I will share my own experience in a separate post, but I don't think most of my readers, who are male, will even remotely understand the psychology behind such a decision. So, I ask a quick question. What is the longest period of time you've gone without sex?


Anna Tairova
Sep. 9th, 2015 05:54 pm (UTC)
1,5 years at my youth after first love
And a year later.
Sep. 9th, 2015 05:55 pm (UTC)
First love...ah, I still remember mine. He just got married. :)
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:04 pm (UTC)
About three - four months
I was in the Army. But then, after several months there were ways... like AWOLs and permitted leaves, and I served in Moscow, so I didn`t die from spermal intoxication (joking).
Btw, do you call masturbation a sex?
I do, and what is more, it`s sex with the person you truly love.
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:07 pm (UTC)
Re: About three - four months
Masturbation doesn't count. I'm talking about relations with the opposite sex. Of course, even when I'm celibate, the vibrator is always working. This is the only way to maintain sanity during such periods. :) And, it's very fast.
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:11 pm (UTC)
Re: About three - four months
Aha! Now you see a problem 'to maintain sanity' with all those nurses frollicking around. )))

Edited at 2015-09-09 06:12 pm (UTC)
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:13 pm (UTC)
Re: About three - four months
I once wrote about masturbation on LiveJournal and people's brains exploded! They could not believe that a woman would openly discuss such an issue. Well, I feel very sorry for Russian women if they have not become friends with vibrators. :)
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:46 pm (UTC)
have not become friends with vibrators
You`re not right, many of them even became lovers with them.
They call them pretty names and cajole them.
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:47 pm (UTC)
Re: have not become friends with vibrators
They are a woman's best friend, so this is good. :)
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:06 pm (UTC)
I found my first TRUE love whom I lost at the age of 23
after 15 years of not seeing each other.
And it was a gaz!
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:08 pm (UTC)
Re: I found my first TRUE love whom I lost at the age of 23
My first love was at 20 years old, and then he took my virginity about a year later. We lived together for many years. It was exactly as a marriage, without the certificate.


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