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Surviving Without Sex

no-sex-tq

For a long time, I've wanted to write about this topic and explain why some women become celibate during certain periods in their life. Sometimes this is a conscious choice, and other times it happens unexpectedly as a defensive measure, out of fear of intimacy or being hurt when a relationship sours and ends. I will share my own experience in a separate post, but I don't think most of my readers, who are male, will even remotely understand the psychology behind such a decision. So, I ask a quick question. What is the longest period of time you've gone without sex?

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berngardovka
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:09 pm (UTC)
i'm from Pete. We have many expats here. And i had very communicative french gf here, so she intoduced me to many foreigners from 'internations' club, also i am active in couchsurfing

russians are so lazy, ad they all hunted for model looking girls to show off her to a friends
this is how i feel it
Anyway i didn't meet also a person who share my interest as ecology, recycling, citycycling, economy sharing, couchsurfing
Sharing and be trusfully is not a common here thrue men
peacetraveler22
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:11 pm (UTC)
Good luck in your search! The most important thing is to have shared goals and hobbies in life. Looks quickly fade, at least for me. :) I've never done couchsurfing. You let male travelers stay with you? I would be too scared.
berngardovka
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:17 pm (UTC)
yes, i hosted and surfed many times
And mostly (90%) request comes from opposite sex
I have 1 room appartment and we slept in one room
Asian ppl shy so much! UE ppl are fine and comfortable to stay with, if they are exprinced with CS! but if the person have big experence, there are no matter where he is from. Best male guest i had was from spain - incrediable seanse of humor and easy walker for long distances
peacetraveler22
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:34 pm (UTC)
Great, very cool!
bloger_d
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:22 pm (UTC)
russian girls don't need shared goals when it comes to churkas and especially haches
peacetraveler22
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:37 pm (UTC)
Are you jealous that these men get more attention than you? :)
bloger_d
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:43 pm (UTC)
I'm not.

I'm jealous of those who live in their own detached houses, and therefore can live the way they want.

Goyskaya Kvartirnaya Mat' with her criminal gang has stolen real estate worth $1000000 from me.
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bloger_d
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:19 pm (UTC)
russian girls love haches and churkas

if they don't get enough churkas in russia they go to turkey and egypt

a renowned bloger oldfisher_mk describes this under the tag "Natashas"

http://oldfisher-mk.livejournal.com/tag/%D0%BD%D0%B0%D1%82%D0%B0%D1%88%D0%B8
berngardovka
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:22 pm (UTC)
yep

some women under 50 are looking for sex there or here with immigrants from former soviet republics
peacetraveler22
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:39 pm (UTC)
I don't understand the intolerance for such mixed ethnic relationships.
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peacetraveler22
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:40 pm (UTC)
" haches and churkas" - they are the same? I only learned the second derogatory term yesterday.
bloger_d
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:44 pm (UTC)
a hach is more european-looking, but still black
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3as7
Sep. 9th, 2015 09:44 pm (UTC)
People from Central Asian region, as well as tartars are called the ch.. word, and people from the Caucasian region are called the h.. word.

Please keep in mind that everyone using these words is xenophobic and intolerant, and these words are similar to using the n.. word to describe black people.
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3as7
Sep. 9th, 2015 08:46 pm (UTC)
I'm going to file a discrimination lawsuit - you just insulted me by saying that all Russian men are lazy.

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