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Surviving Without Sex


For a long time, I've wanted to write about this topic and explain why some women become celibate during certain periods in their life. Sometimes this is a conscious choice, and other times it happens unexpectedly as a defensive measure, out of fear of intimacy or being hurt when a relationship sours and ends. I will share my own experience in a separate post, but I don't think most of my readers, who are male, will even remotely understand the psychology behind such a decision. So, I ask a quick question. What is the longest period of time you've gone without sex?


Sep. 9th, 2015 06:14 pm (UTC)
This is not very long. For me, it was years.
Sep. 9th, 2015 07:00 pm (UTC)
I just fall in love very easily. But I'm only 25. Who knows what life has ahead
Sep. 9th, 2015 07:04 pm (UTC)
You are still young! I think sex sometimes creates artificial intimacy and emotions if you jump in too early. At least this is what happened to me in my 20's. It's rare that a woman can just have sex for physical pleasure, without any type of emotion. No matter how many times we try to convince ourselves otherwise. :) It doesn't have to be love, it can be a deep friendship or something else, just a mental connection of some sort.


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