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Surviving Without Sex


For a long time, I've wanted to write about this topic and explain why some women become celibate during certain periods in their life. Sometimes this is a conscious choice, and other times it happens unexpectedly as a defensive measure, out of fear of intimacy or being hurt when a relationship sours and ends. I will share my own experience in a separate post, but I don't think most of my readers, who are male, will even remotely understand the psychology behind such a decision. So, I ask a quick question. What is the longest period of time you've gone without sex?


Sep. 9th, 2015 06:40 pm (UTC)
" haches and churkas" - they are the same? I only learned the second derogatory term yesterday.
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:44 pm (UTC)
a hach is more european-looking, but still black
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:45 pm (UTC)
So Russians consider people from the Caucasus to be "black"?
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:49 pm (UTC)
Definitely. "Caucasian" is a wrong term for a white.
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:50 pm (UTC)
Okay, I didn't know such people are considered "black." I've never been to this region, or met anyone from there.
Sep. 9th, 2015 10:27 pm (UTC)
"Caucasian" have totally different meaning in Russian and English. In English Caucasian is is a very large racial group that consists of Arabs, North Africans, Whites, Ethiopians and some people of India. So in English you can say that all white people is Caucasian.

In Russian Caucasian usually means people from Caucasus region only. It is opposed to White/Russian/Slavs.

And don't use words "haches and churkas". This is like "niger" in US. Very offensive for some people.
Sep. 9th, 2015 11:52 pm (UTC)
I understand the distinction, but thanks for the explanation. :) It's good to know these terms are improper and offensive so that I'm sure to never use them. Sometimes people use slang words for which I don't know the meaning.
Sep. 9th, 2015 10:41 pm (UTC)
Please do not listen to him. He is talking bullshit. There is no racism here.
It's just an illusion of internet anonymity. In real life he will probably be beaten badly for such words.

Someone could not like immigrants or even some ethnic groups but it is not so offensive.
Sep. 9th, 2015 11:54 pm (UTC)
He seems to have a strong dislike for people from the Caucasus region. Of course, it's his right but I don't like offensive ethnic terms thrown around in my blog.
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Sep. 9th, 2015 09:44 pm (UTC)
People from Central Asian region, as well as tartars are called the ch.. word, and people from the Caucasian region are called the h.. word.

Please keep in mind that everyone using these words is xenophobic and intolerant, and these words are similar to using the n.. word to describe black people.
Sep. 9th, 2015 11:49 pm (UTC)
Thanks, I just learned about these terms and understand they are derogatory slang words. Probably similar to our word "nigger," which I will never utter.
Sep. 10th, 2015 12:14 am (UTC)
Btw "nigger" here was ok - and still is, if it`s used not in front of black people - btw, I`ve no idea how to call tolerantly black-skinned man, could you tell me current norm for US?
Sep. 10th, 2015 12:15 am (UTC)
Politically correct is to call them "black" or "African-American." I always use the first term.
Екатерина Панфёрова
Sep. 11th, 2015 07:33 pm (UTC)
I wonder if somebody told you that white woman who's sex (or is married) with black man (or mentioned h..., ch..., arabs, indians and other 'coloured' men) is called "чернильница" (inkpot) here? I was shocked at it...
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Sep. 13th, 2015 02:45 am (UTC)
Not nigger is OK in Russian, but negro. Negro is OK in US as well but not all have nerve to say it.


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