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Surviving Without Sex

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For a long time, I've wanted to write about this topic and explain why some women become celibate during certain periods in their life. Sometimes this is a conscious choice, and other times it happens unexpectedly as a defensive measure, out of fear of intimacy or being hurt when a relationship sours and ends. I will share my own experience in a separate post, but I don't think most of my readers, who are male, will even remotely understand the psychology behind such a decision. So, I ask a quick question. What is the longest period of time you've gone without sex?

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peacetraveler22
Sep. 9th, 2015 06:42 pm (UTC)
It seems to me that no matter the country, people are very promiscuous now. The Internet is to thank for it, where accessibility to dating and hook-up sites is so easy. I'm sure you have "Tinder" or similar apps/sites there in Russia. Or, the gay version "Grindr."
kolldun
Sep. 10th, 2015 04:20 am (UTC)
Bernagradovka explained you earlier un the comments that russian girls are mostly not interested in russian not rich men who work and play video games as they are up to attending endless meetings for expats (obviously not being one) looking for a guy with money (expats are always quite wealthy, poor men from europe don't come here looking for jobs) and european passport to get their ticket to "another life".

Luckily not every one is like that! But somehow it takes a lot of effort to find a friend to have casual relationship - i a month or two they either try to move in with you or break up with you. I'm talking from experience.

My last gfriend broke up with me "cause our relationship wasn't developing" and now she lives with a spanish guy who is teaching spanish here (usually people without education in linguistics who go abroad to teach the only thing they know - their native language, are the most pathetic). And the girl i am with now everyday is molesting me with "marriage and kids" topics and acuses me of being selfish kid who will die alone... And that for not wanting wedding and kids!
peacetraveler22
Sep. 10th, 2015 04:27 pm (UTC)
I'm the opposite. I like to take things at a snail's pace. :)

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