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Surviving Without Sex


For a long time, I've wanted to write about this topic and explain why some women become celibate during certain periods in their life. Sometimes this is a conscious choice, and other times it happens unexpectedly as a defensive measure, out of fear of intimacy or being hurt when a relationship sours and ends. I will share my own experience in a separate post, but I don't think most of my readers, who are male, will even remotely understand the psychology behind such a decision. So, I ask a quick question. What is the longest period of time you've gone without sex?


Sep. 9th, 2015 07:01 pm (UTC)
The men to which I've been most attracted in recent years are not geographically close. It's a pity, but I think it's too difficult to be in a long-distance relationship for extended periods of time. Seeing someone on the computer screen or iPhone will never be the same as having them physically present, at least for me.
Sep. 9th, 2015 07:18 pm (UTC)
I completely agree. It this relationship i ended up hurt very deeply, lonely and pessimistic. It takes too much effort to handle. And if there is no happy ending to which both parties work for, there is no future.
I'd love to start new relationship with active and happy sexual life, but it just hasn't happened yet.
Worth to mention, he got a girlfriend about three months later and got married not so long ago. Which i think proves my point very well))
Do you have a post on a long distance relationship topic? I'd like to read your thoughts on it and read comments. Nice to know about the experience of other people who have been through it.

Edited at 2015-09-09 07:20 pm (UTC)
Sep. 9th, 2015 07:24 pm (UTC)
No, sorry I don't have such a post. Maybe I'll write about it sometime though and people can share their experiences.


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