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Again, we have the eternal theme of a female in search of her prince. Perhaps this is a joke, but I doubt it because many of my female acquaintances had similar lists in their 20's. A man must meet a number of specifications to even be considered as a partner, with some of the requirements bordering on absurdity. I think it's better to not have a list of criteria for a romantic partner. This limits your choices mentally, as it is highly unlikely any man will embody all of a woman's preferred attributes. More imporantly, there is no magic formula for passion or attraction. I'm a minimalist, so if I had to pick two criteria, the man must be (1) very adventurous; and (2) open-minded. I don't care about country of origin, skin color, profession, or income. Intelligence is also at the top of the list, but open-minded people are rarely dumb. They have a natural sense of curiosity and thirst for knowledge, which is highly attractive and arousing.

Did you create a list like this while searching for a partner? I've never once heard my male friends have so many preferences for a woman. Usually it is enough that she is breathing, spreads her legs, and doesn't nag too much. :)

Originally posted by politichanka at Новая версия моего идеального мужчины
Образ моего идеального мужчины резко поменялся.

Теперь мужчина, которого я считаю идеалом для себя, должен обладать следующими качествами:

1. Мой идеальный мужчина должен быть уверенным и мужественным. Таким, чтобы про него можно было сказать: настоящий мужчина.

2. Мой идеальный мужчина должен быть родом с сибирских бескрайних просторов крайнего севера. Его Родина: Красноярск, Норильск или Новый Уренгой.

3. У моего идеального мужчины нет автофобии (Автофобия - это типа: "Лисапед - экологичнее, чем машина, поэтому никогда не сяду за руль машины, только лисапед"). У моего идеального мужчины есть машина и хороший стаж вождения.

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Feb. 3rd, 2016 06:22 am (UTC)
A few years ago an LJ-friend of mine read the "list of requirements for an ideal woman" written (in quite a serious mood) by some LJ-user, a man, and wrote: "Looks like this guy is describing me!"
And then - because the relationship needs to be symmetric - she responded with her own list of seven requirements that described her expectations from an "ideal man" - and that was funny indeed. :) But logically speaking, if a woman is an ideal one, she may in turn set some difficult requirements to an ideal man - why not?
(full story here http://shakty.livejournal.com/404410.html )
Feb. 3rd, 2016 01:17 pm (UTC)
Hi Slava! Well, these lists are much more rational in my view. :) They aren't so superficial in nature, and relate mostly to intellect and personality.
Feb. 3rd, 2016 09:00 am (UTC)
Ух ты, сколько тараканов в одной голове) Интересный случай для врачей и прочих специалистов, которые сразу идут лесом)
Feb. 3rd, 2016 01:18 pm (UTC)
She is still young...as she gets older, she will better understand what's more important for a long term partner. Hopefully. :)
(no subject) - cahek911 - Feb. 4th, 2016 03:50 am (UTC) - Expand
Feb. 3rd, 2016 12:07 pm (UTC)
No ideal penis size? Her standarts are so low.
Feb. 3rd, 2016 01:18 pm (UTC)
Maybe she doesn't care? :) Big, small, medium...there are pros and cons to all sizes!
Feb. 3rd, 2016 02:51 pm (UTC)
Well, you don't believe but I have such a list too. Well, not a list because I haven't written everything don yet, but I have my own idea of the ideal man. And I am pretty sure that I won't even meet him, not to mention be with him. But it's not the reason to discard your ideals.
Feb. 3rd, 2016 04:29 pm (UTC)
But you are already married! :) What happens if you meet the ideal man? You will immediately divorce your husband? ;)
(no subject) - anna_sollanna - Feb. 4th, 2016 01:24 pm (UTC) - Expand
Ivan Ivanych
Feb. 3rd, 2016 06:24 pm (UTC)
Мне кажется, что это такой образ рыцаря на белом коне, он поставлен как задача, но совершенно недостижим. Где вы видели огромного сильного мужика из Норильска, который в то же время знаток русского языка, не курит, умен и остер на тонкие шутки для женщин? Не бывает такого! Если только в очередной женской книге поискать. Любовь - это не умение найти человека со всеми теми качествами, что женщина вынесла в список, и без которых она не выйдет замуж. Любовь - умение видеть главное и не замечать тех недостаток человека, с которыми будешь мириться. Шэннон, именно так бывает в жизни! Можно придумать себе несуществующего человека и бегать потом искать такого с огромным списком качеств. Сегодня не то время. Если сидеть в замке и ждать рыцаря, можно и не дождаться.
Feb. 3rd, 2016 06:33 pm (UTC)
Of course, this list is ridiculous. I did not create it, nor are these qualities what I desire in a man. I am merely commenting on what another blogger wrote. I don't believe in prince charmings. :))
(no subject) - Ivan Ivanych - Feb. 3rd, 2016 06:39 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - peacetraveler22 - Feb. 3rd, 2016 06:40 pm (UTC) - Expand
Feb. 3rd, 2016 08:59 pm (UTC)
That's one way for setting yourself up for disappointment and failure.
Feb. 4th, 2016 12:52 am (UTC)
Yeah! Better to have lower expectations and be pleasantly surprised. :)
(no subject) - elarbee - Feb. 4th, 2016 06:13 am (UTC) - Expand
Feb. 7th, 2016 02:04 pm (UTC)
"Usually it is enough that she is breathing, spreads her legs, and doesn't nag too much."

Great list! I'll write it for practical use :)))
Feb. 9th, 2016 12:58 pm (UTC)
Then you should have no problem meeting a woman! These are very basic requirements. :)) Good luck!
(no subject) - sergej_vl - Feb. 9th, 2016 01:23 pm (UTC) - Expand
(no subject) - peacetraveler22 - Feb. 9th, 2016 01:24 pm (UTC) - Expand
Feb. 11th, 2016 09:32 am (UTC)
все про меня. но извини, детка, я уже занят.
Feb. 11th, 2016 11:55 am (UTC)
Be faithful to your wife! :)
Feb. 16th, 2016 06:48 pm (UTC)
I have these two qualities.

The only thing that I need from a woman is the USA citizenship.
Feb. 16th, 2016 06:51 pm (UTC)
Why do you want U.S. citizenship so badly? You could have stayed in Israel and obtained citizenship there. It would have then made your pathway to the U.S. easier.
(no subject) - baron2012 - Feb. 16th, 2016 07:00 pm (UTC) - Expand
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